How good are you at give and take? With Mercury retrograde in the realm of your intimate bonds most of the month, mastering the art of compromise in relationships will be your most juicy learning. With Mars firing up the way you express yourself, having the last word will be even more tempting than usual. Ask yourself is winning the fight really worth the collateral damage?

Tip: Lean into body-centred practices to help manage relationship stress

Nourishing your nervous system should be your top priority this month as Virgo season sets the scene for some serious self care. While some unexpected expenses could leave you feeling a little edgy, a wellness reset could be just what the doctor ordered. Take the time to find a class or treatment that feels truly blissful—then schedule it weekly.

Tip: Commit (and stick to) weekly body or skin treatments that feel like a treat

With your energy levels on lock, you could easily spread yourself too thin in September. Rather than overcommitting and under-delivering, try to hold out before you say “yes”. Manage expectations and let people know upfront you’ll need extra time to think things through. When you’re making a decision, tune in to how you feel in your belly—excited or heavy—when you know, you know.

Tip: Use a body-scan meditation to help strengthen your connection to your gut instinct

Revisiting conversations—or even disagreements—with family or flatmates could use up a lot of mental energy this month. Take proactive steps to manage your wellbeing before you get burnt out, and schedule plenty of downtime. Stay calm amid the confusion, amplified by Mercury retrograde (from 10 September) by finding pleasure in your favourite books or mags. 

Tip: Treat yourself to a read.ly subscription and dive deep into a back issues of your favourite mag

If you only do one thing this month, back up your docs. As Mercury retrograde (from 10 September) stirs the pot around your tech, the chance you’ll end up in the Genius Bar is high. Meanwhile Venus could have you feeling extra spendy. If you’re feeling like a splurge, invest in your wellbeing rather than another pair of shoes.

Tip: Lash out on a big-ticket purchase that supports your wellbeing—like your own at-home Reformer bed

While Mercury retrograde (from 10 September) could have you moving a little slower than usual, your home season is the perfect time for a style reset. Take time out to treat yourself. New hair, nails, or that regular facial package you’ve meaning to book is just what you need. If you must be productive, make time to review your financial sitch.

Tip: Seek out professional advice to support your financial wellbeing

Staying grounded is key this month as Mercury retrograde (from 10 September) makes you feel more indecisive than usual. It’s not a problem but doing what you can to clear the decks and hold fire on big decisions until next month will help you navigate the uncertainty. Give your body plenty of rest and prioritise solitude before your home season kicks off (from 23 September).

Tip: Make friends with your favourite meditation app (we love Insight Timer) and explore sound healing and Yoga Nidra to nourish your nervous system

There’s a lot going on this month, but (for once this year) Scorpio folks should have a gentler time of it. Making space to connect with friends will be like a recovery mask for your soul in September as the sun lights up your social sector. A yoga retreat or spa weekend is the ideal way to ground and centre amid the craziness of Mercury retrograde (from 10 September).

Tip: Pay attention to dreams as Mercury retrograde stirs up your subconscious

Revisiting an issue with friends or workmates could use a lot of mental energy this month. Mercury retrograde (from 10 September) could see issues you thought were well and truly resolved resurface, demanding a rethink. The key is to approach things from a different perspective—especially before 23 September. Try to reserve judgement, even if you’re feeling irritated by your nearest and dearest.  

Tip: Getting lost in a repetitive-yet-meditative chore at work (think: organising that pile of receipts you’ve been avoiding) will be extra satisfying

There’s holding pattern vibes this month as Mercury retrograde (from 10 September) asks you to be patient—especially when it comes to work stuff. Try as you might to make things happen or get a solid answer, progress will move at a glacial pace. Save yourself the heartache and resign yourself to a month where things just won’t come together as fast as you’d like. 

Tip: Support your stress levels with practices that nourish the body, mind and spirit like Kundalini yoga

Big air energy could leave you feeling a little antsy this month as both Mercury and Mars send you into mental overdrive. You’ll either find yourself up all night overthinking things from every possible perspective, or in the grips of analysis paralysis, or both! Prioritising rituals that help you get out of your head are essential to staying grounded and centred.

Tip: Make exercise, breath work and meditation a daily non-negotiable

While Mars could have you feeling a little fiery on the home front, finding solace in your loves—your partner, best friends or even babies—will help cool your jets. A review of big financial decisions may be in order too. Don’t rush anything but allow time and space to see what might work best for everyone involved. Letting things unfold in their own time and following your intuition is the safest MO.

Tip: Lash out on something that shows the most important person in your life just how much you care

Hot tip: try reading these horoscopes for your rising sign as well as your sun sign. You can check the Co-Star app or have your charts read by an astrologist to see what your rising sign is.

Emma Vidgen is an astrologer and meditation teacher. Follow her or book a reading @emma_vee and @thewayward.co.